Below are questions that would help you define your type of kinkiness and how you can describe yourself to a potential partner.
1. Do you prefer rough and intense sex over other kinds of sex?
- Yes, I enjoy a rough and intense sex
- No, I don’t
- Sometimes, when I feel like been rough handled
- If my partner loves it, I can compromise
2. I enjoy been command and dominated by my partner in the bedroom
- Yes, I prefer to be dominated
- No, I don’t
- I don’t know, maybe sometimes
- If my partner loves it, then I would enjoy it
3. I will do anything that makes my partner highly satisfied in the bedroom
- Yes, anything in the bedroom
- No, I don’t care about my partner orgasm
- It feels good
4. Do you enjoy being in pain during sex (slapping, flogging, or whipping)?
- Yes, pain is a pleasure
- If my partner enjoy giving pain during sex, I will enjoy it too
- No, pain is not pleasure
5. I get bored from not having a variation of sex?
- Yes, if I constantly involved in one type of sex, I get bored
- Not really, but a little variation would be nice
- No, I don’t get bored at all
6. Do you like outdoor sex?
- Yes! I love outdoor sex
- No way!
- If my partner love it, I’m down for it
7. I love to be tied and restrained during sex
- No, never wants to be tied
- Yes, it turns me on all the time
8. I like my partner to be submissive in the bedroom?
- Yes! I want to dominate and give command during sex
- Sometimes, when I feel like it
- No, not at all
9. I prefer to have my partner reach orgasm even when I don’t
- Yes, I’m sexually satisfied when my partner reach orgasm
- No, I want to reach orgasm during sex
10. Do you like it when you are being watched during sex?
- Yes, I find it exciting to watch during sex
- No, I can’t imagine the tension
- I’m willing to try this
11. I love watching people have sex
- Yes I enjoy watching people have sex
- No, I don’t it’s disgusting
12. Group sex is a turn on for me
- Yes, I agree
- I disagree
- I’m open to it if my partner wants group sex
13. I get turned on from inflicting pain on my partner during sex
- Yes, it’s the ultimate satisfaction
- Hell no, I can’t hurt my partner
- If my partner loves it
14. I prefer having one partner all my life
- No, a lifetime is too long, and it will be coming boring
- Yes, I want a one-lifetime partner
Interpreting your BDSM Kink Test Results
The main goal of this BDSM Kink test is so you can understand your BDSM and kinkiness better. Each question was asked to place you in the dominant or submissive class. There are 6 attributes on the kink scale
- Dominant: high percentage on dominant means you like to take control in the bedroom and love a partner that obeys. A low score means you don’t want to take control.
- Submissive: high score means you love it when your partner takes full control in the bedroom and you are submissive to his/her command. A low score means you rather are dominant or it should be a free choice.
- Kinky sex: a high score indicates BDSM and fetish encounter turn you on. A low kinky sex score means you prefer regular sex.
- Pleasure provider: a high score means you are sexually satisfied when your partner reaches orgasm during BDSM sex.
- Sexual selfishness: a low score here means you care about your partner’s sexual satisfaction, and during BDSM, you would make them love the sex.
- Vanilla sex: a high score indicates you are not turned on by BDSM or fetish sexual encounter and loves the standard sex. A low score shows you fancy BDSM and fetish more than regular sex.
This BDSM kink test is not 100 percent correct but can help you find a stand-in for your sexual life.